empowering women to create better outcomes through divorce and rebuild their confidence, career and finances
Divorce can feel like navigating a storm with no clear path to calmer waters. I understand how challenging it can feel. My 10 Step Roadmap through Divorce is a great place to start. It is a comprehensive guide designed to help you build advocacy. Learn to take control of the process, understand your options, make confident, informed decisions every step of the way. This will help you identify the experts you need to build your strategy and get to the other side.
You are not alone! I understand what it means to navigate this challenging experience, especially while you continue to show up in every day life, go to work, parent and navigate the divorce itself. Many of my clients experience periods of loneliness or overwhelm, but you deserve a community and a plan that truly supports you. My resources include courses, digital downloads and coaching, and provide not only practical strategies but also emotional support to ensure you feel empowered and understood.
Many women enter the divorce process feeling unsure of how to advocate for their needs and find support in negotiating. My resources teach you tools and strategies for negotiating, staying focused and advocating for your future.
Understanding the financial implications of divorce is crucial and no one will care more about your financial well being than you! Learning the tools and and strategies for conserving resources and understanding the impact of your decisions is crucial. My 10 Step Digital Roadmap and Smart Girls Rebuild course provide the actionable steps to understand your finances, make better decisions, plan for your future and rebuild after divorce.
Divorce can feel like a full time job on top of everything else you're juggling! My structured approach, learn as you go, self paced digital roadmap helps you prioritize your needs and navigate this chapter with confidence and clarity.
Rebuilding after divorce can seem daunting, and as someone who has walked in your shoes, I know how hard it can feel! From someone who understands and has rebuilt confidence, career and financial stability, I know it's possible. My Smart Girls Rebuild Course offers a 3-series module, community forum and coaching focused on rebuilding your confidence, career and finances with actionable steps to design a life that aligns with your goals and values. Your future self will thank you!
Find the strategy that meets your needs no matter where are now. From just starting out in the divorce process to feeling stuck in it, or struggling to rebuild your vision after divorce. Whether your needs are targeted 1:1 coaching, actionable steps on the roadmap or a more tailored approach to rebuilding, find the solution that will support you and bring you successfully through to the other side to your next chapter.
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since i met hilary last year, her guidance has helped me gain clarity on what i needed to focus on when i felt overwhelmed and defeated. through her coaching, i learned so many different tidbits of helpful information as i navigated the surmounting challenges so i could feel genuinely supported and peaceful.
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Feeling lost in the divorce process? You're in the right place. I'm the founder of Smart Girls Divorce Strategy, a Coach and Educator. I teach women to advocate for themselves and achieve better outcomes. Through online courses, the Smart Girls community, and 1:1 Coaching, I support women through separation, divorce, and rebuilding.
After navigating my own high-conflict divorce, including the legal system, lawyers, mediators, arbitrators, and private negotiation, I realized that there wasn't enough support or education to help people advocate for themselves. You can find the experts, but don't outsource your advocacy.
A mission driven community guiding women through complexities of divorce with empathy, expertise and unwavering support to achieve better outcomes and future financial well-being.
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I am so grateful for the insights shared during our coaching sessions! The past few months have been challenging, but your guidance has resonated deeply with me. Your coaching is truly therapeutic, offering constant reminders and redirection to help me move forward.
Great advice! Hilary’s guidance on creating a parenting plan and all that I would want to consider was incredibly useful to me. She helped fill in so many gaps that my lawyers didn’t know about and that I was able to share with my co-parent. I’m grateful for her support.
Attending your coaching sessions was a transformative experience for me. After doing a lot of work on my own but not knowing the process, it was invaluable to get your feedback on whether I was on the right track, especially with my strategy. Your guidance on moving forward and building my future was exactly what I needed. For so long it felt like I was stuck in the past, investing in what is no longer my reality. Thanks to your coaching, I now feel empowered to focus on my future.
I started working with Hilary after my divorce, and while I wish I had known about her when I went through it, her coaching has helped me reframe my perspective on rebuilding. As a stay-at-home-mom for 12 years, I lacked confidence in my abilities and what it meant to rebuild. Our sessions helped me truly see how valuable my efforts and skill set are and how much is possible for the future. She has helped me map out a new career path while managing post-divorce life. Most importantly, I now see that I can rebuild my financial stability and career with confidence.
Each course is designed for a specific stage of the journey. The 10-Step Roadmap is for anyone beginning their divorce, unsure of the first steps to take during the process or wanting to move the process forward. The 4 modules cover planning, preparation, negotiating and staying on track, and finally finalizing and future planning. Smart girls Rebuild is a future focused course for those of you who are on the other side of divorce. If you want to feel more confident, level-up your career or return to the workforce, develop financial stability and independence, this course will get you there!
Each course is structured differently based on different goals. The 10 Step Roadmap is a mini course composed of a digital download that you can print out, put in a binder and work through self paced. Smart Girls Rebuild is an interactive course with dedicated coaching and a fixed schedule for intake and delivery of each module. As you may be managing many other responsibilities in your day to day, the courses are designed to be self-paced to accommodate your schedule.
While this information is all general in nature and for informational purposes only, we do offer community forums to ask questions as well as a monthly coaching session where you can submit questions in advance and I can provide you guidance related to your individual concerns.
No, the information contained in these courses is for informative and educational purposes only. It is not to be taken in the place of legal or financial advice, or taken as such and should not be construed as either therapeutic, legal, or financial advice.
My work and courses have been focused on women as I can speak to their experience personally. Statistically the financial impact of divorce looks different for women which is why I focus on ensuring they are getting the best outcome. I will guide and help provide thorough information so that women can be in the best position possible in various aspects of divorce. I do have some men as clients in my coaching practice and they are not prohibited from purchasing or participating in the courses.
You get lifetime access to all courses. Everyone's journey through divorce and rebuilding is different and we want to ensure you are supported through it. No matter how long it takes. We will be there for you.
Yes. We understand that divorce can be a challenging time and want to ensure there is an option for payment. Using one of our payment providers, you can split your payments into 4 equal monthly payments to help ensure you can access our resources.
All sales are final with no returns, refunds or exchanges of any kind. As these are digital products they are considered "opened" and "used" once purchased. If you have any questions, please send us an email.
Yes. If you feel you would like more support outside of the courses reach out to book a session with me. As a coach I will guide you to make goals and clear decisions so you can feel you have a team of support. As someone who has experienced a high-conflict divorce, I will help you navigate the legal system, help you process your emotions through the various stages to help you move forward and achieve your goals in the clearest way for your personal situation.
